Quote: selfish, heartless, cruel, vindictive, and a bunch of other mean and nasty things. W didn’t take it seriously
Does she seem to have even a slightly accurate picture of her own personality? Does she admit to any character flaws? For example, does she admit to having a serious temper problem? Or does she just think she occasionally flies off the handle but it's no big deal?
BTW I don't the others were suggesting that you leave the children. They were suggesting that you leave and take the children with you. Why do you think it's good for them to remain with her? I can see why you feel that YOU must remain. But why it is good for them?