Quote: I sense something missing, some pieces of your puzzle aren't being posted. You may not be aware of them, but I think H is.
I am not sure what you meant by this , but if you can explain I would like to ellaborate.
Quote: I sense indignation and frustration at work in you, and wonder if that comes through to him. Probably. I also get the sense that you two aren't quite on the same page; try aligning yourself, since you can't do his part for him.
Funny thing you said we are not on the same page. He always complained about that. I think you are rigth, this would be a good D'Bing oppurtunity. Even though I don't like his page (indecision about how he feels about us, if he should try again or not, does not know if he wants to be with me,he is not offering anything to me) I should just put aside what I want and ride it out to hope he gets more interested, and act nochalant.
How to get him more interested is what I am having trouble with. I just have a feeling he is playing both sides of the fence. That is where the indignation and frustration you talk about comes in for me.