No one is responding to my stich, I am not feeling the love guys.

Update:

Wells he has kept in touch. I asked if I could take him out on his B-day, he was hesitant about it so I said never mind no to worry about it. I called him that day to wish him a Happy B-day and he did not answer the phone, I left him a message. He did not call back to thank me or anything. He is been acting weird and even though he says there is no OW right now, I don't believe it. He says he wants to take it at snail pace because he is scared it will turn out the same way. But that it is time to do some soul searching and make some decisions.

Well my problem is A: is there OW, if so I don't want to play second fiddle and B: if he is condisidering trying this again why won't he just doit. He's admitted the divorce was a mistake, but his thing is waht is done is done. And then he gets all jelous of who I might be hanging around with. Why can't he decide yes or no , to me its so easy. But I guess I should at least be glad about him even considering US again.

I don't know how to handle the possiblity of OW. I asked againg last night he denys it, but I can kinda tell when he lies. I told him I prefer to be hurt by the truth then lies. Why won't he just admitted. And if he does am I am just asking for trouble, will it just hurt my cause.