Well He called on thursday after the email around 8pm and started by telling me that " he had taken this too far, that getting a divorce was too much" We talked on the phone that night for about 4 hours, 3 of those hours were about us, which he iniated. How he missed my cooking ,the house, our late night drives ect ..., asked if I was still available and how I've changed and what I would like for him to change. We ended up going out the next nigth to a movie and while we waited for the movie to start, we took a drive and again he started the conversation about us, what would I like for it to happen, that he does not expect me to welcome him back with open arms. ectt.. After the movie he took me back home and I inviated him in we spend another two hours at the house talking. In which time he told me he is looking to get a govertment job or such that would relocated him and said "hypothetically if you and I get back together would you support that". That night basically he said he would make an effort, that he had nothing to offer but that he wanted to take things slow. He came by again on Sunday to trim the hedges, no talk just got there to do what he need to do and left.
Then I caled him last Wendsday we chit chatted while at work and said he would call me later that night. Which he did, again he started R talk, how he was so pissed off that he did not know what else to do than to Divorce, that night he asked me if I still wanted it to work, how yes I've lost weight but he hasn't seen any other changes(well how the hell is he suppose to see changes if he doesn't come around and number two,and if I was the old me I would've come to him with pitch forks by now but I haven't), and if I wanted to get together again, I said yes. Any who the weekend came and went and no sign of him WTF. All I know is I can't do this limbo crap any more, he can't come around all hot and then give me the no call in 4 days treatment. I can't do this anymore. He can't come sweet talk of how this and that and then make no contact. I am on the verge of just telling him enough and good bye.
Any thoughts?? BTW I found out he went to Hooters over the weekend, not happy about that either.
