We'll it gets better. He called and left a message to "just called to see what you are doing, I hope that maybe you still want to talk to me", then he called again around 7. I did not call back. Then an hour later his mom calls to see how I doing , I did talk to her. Crazyness..but you all are right keeping my cool is key, not emotional, God knows he really has nothing to say and neither do I.