Just to update. I just spoke with H and asked about this weekend, mentioned my cousin's b-day party on Sunday. He said that he was hesitent b/c my family hates him right now, we bantered a little about that, he said that he would think about it. Also said that he was going to get together with his dad sometime over the weekend, and that he might pick up a shift or two. basically gave me nothing. I feel strongly that I need to get him to be more accountable and give me advance information. Don't care what his other plans are (can't) but I need to be able to make plans. He can't assume that I will always be waiting for his arrival. But I also don't want to push HELP
