Had a brief chat with GBO this morning. She's doing okay, still with the nice boyfriend who treats her well. Her H is starting to really spin now that they are working through the divorce details and she is dating. He sends her all kinds of nasty emails (I told her about the trick of turning all his "you"s into "I"s to hear what he's really feeling when he's projecting all his stuff onto her). Then brings her back a thoughtful trinket from a trip he took. Took a 2-week trip with OW right before a 1-week business trip, then complained to GBO that she doesn't let him have the kids enough!!!
She's in a pretty good place, though, able to detach from his drama and not get sucked into it, forwarding his emails to her lawyer. It's sad, really, how MLCers start to panic when they finally start getting what they asked for (divorce and OW), and how they deal with it by projecting all of their negative feelings about themselves onto the LBS. Pretty textbook, I'd say.
