BTDT. So funny maybe it is the name lol.

I felt the same way in the begining with my H. He also has some sexual inhibitions. But you will not know if you don't try it. And really what do you have to loose?
My H who use to deny any form of MB now openly does so in my presence. So you never know

I'm sometimes tempted to tell Richard how I used to enjoy sex. In my first marriage,

Yeah I would not think this to good of a idea. But I understand the feelings of wanting to lash out even if it hurts someone at times.
If your H already has sexual issues openly comparing him to a past relationship that does not throw a favorable light on him is probably going to inhibite him even more.
Drawing him out is your best bet.

Well the BB's are pretty dead on the weekends. I am sure others will be along to help you out better then I.

Hope you have a wonderful evening