Quote: Good point about the difference between enjoying your own sexuality and feeling sexually desirable. Feeling desirable does generally require someone else's participation while feeling sexual or sensual does not. Feeling desirable means we are the specific object of someone else's sexual interest (at least for that moment). Folks can blast me for this but in the end it does take two to tango.
This appears to be the basic issue of everyone posting on this board who HAS a problem... namely that they are missing a sense of their sexual desirability because their partner is not showing it and fidelity demands that they not seek validation of their desirability elsewhere.
We don't need outside validation of our SEXUALITY, but in order to feel desirABLE we have to have someone desiring us and showing it.
Surely there's nothing in this statement to "blast" you for?
