Quote: So his response or non response takes nothing away from the experience or feeling of sensuality that comes from slipping it on.
I think the experience of wearing lingerie (or putting on lotion, makeup, dressing up, even MB) just for your own pleasure is a good way to be aware of and enjoy your own SEXUALITY. This is a good thing, a fun thing, and we should do it for ourselves because it feels good...
BUT
It does nothing for your experience of yourself as SEXUALLY DESIRABLE.
These are two separate, valuable, distinct experiences that should not be mutually exclusive, but alas, for some of us, they seem to be...
