If the lingerie is something you enjoy even if your H's do not respond the way you would like. You should still wear it. Obviously this is something you can do for your own sensuality. I love lingerie of sorts and it has nothing to do with my H. It just makes me feel good to put it on. I wear it to bed and get up in the morning and wear it around the house as long as it is not to skimpy to wear in front of my kids. Which only became a problem as they got older. My H could give a fig about it he pays no more attention to it then when I have a tank top and undies on or a tee shirt and sweat pants. But I wear it because I like it. Which means I do it for me not for him. So his response or non response takes nothing away from the experience or feeling of sensuality that comes from slipping it on.
