I like the idea of ME turning him on, something I'm wearing, the way that I move, something. It doesn't appear that this is how he works.
What a bottomless pit of disappointment that is to me.
I too have drawers of lingerie that I never wear due to Lil's "if a tree falls" line of thinking. It is utterly disappointing. Part of me thinks, Oh H just FAKE it! If you knew how much it adds to the experience for me--to have a man who actively wants me--you'd just fake it and reap the benefits.
But I have to say that with each passing year, I come closer and closer to true acceptance. And it's more than just acceptance of the lingerie thing..it's a whole acceptance of who he IS.
