Kinda funny, HP, how you are assuring me that the ML was for his benefit and not just mine. Twisted, in a way that only a fellow woman with an LDH would understand.
Anyway... move forward, I will. It takes its toll that he is pressured and feels blocked by me in some way, which prevents spontaneous play. He has to work through this himself...I can only be patient and try not to aggravate the situation by getting overly emotional...easier said than done.
This am we were having tea after we got the kids off to school before he left for work; there was new snow on the ground...very picturesque and tranquil feeling...and right there and then, with the good, relaxed EC going, he told me ( and also showed me,lol) that he had the "tingles." Not that he did anything about it, mind you, but it was cute.