How did you know that he lost momentum? Did he say that he no longer wanted to ML? Was he sleepy?
I'm not following exactly where everything went wrong but I do believe you that they did!
Fwiw, my H would have completely lost momentum too. The moment would have been long gone and he'd be blissfully snoozing.
Maybe next time you could just rush away and put on the outfit? Skip the bath? Or ask him to join you?
Sorry that it was something of a bomb. I'm absolutely certain that the ML later on wasn't just "for you"; it was for him, too. My H does this all the time--reject me, then wake up a few hours later, horny. Just needed a cat nap, I guess.
