Chrissy...I see what you are saying...it would have been better to " go for it" in the moment and not stick to the plan, which added pressure and made him lose momentum.
Cobra... I didn't leave to take the bath in a rejecting kind of way...we were getting warmed up and I was going along with the plan. I truly thought he would be even more revved up, since this was the outfit he chose and all...but the pressure did us in. I am still dealing with my feelings of rejection...from my POV, it's painful to attempt to look good for your H and then get no response. The ML later in the night was for my benefit ( okay and his too)...he wanted to show me that he does get aroused and wants me.
It's just very hard on the female psyche to deal with this LDH thing.
