A bath when he was excited what were you thinking? Did you at least invite him to join in. Or did you just give him let down time?
If my H is trying to have sex and I say oh let me go bath first I am really saying that is more interesting to me that what has popped up and I am hoping it goes away.(did that this morning by the way).
Spontanous...... Not primed would have gotten you a little further down the road to where you want to head sweetie.
Well here is hoping everything else is going okay. And you get a chance to have a do over tonight!