Quote: I am able to better see how my emotionality played a role in weakening the marriage
Sorry, I cannot go along with the idea that you showing your vulnerable side, being more "yourself," being more honest in not putting your best foot/face forward at all times can "weaken" a marriage. IMHO this kind of a statement is a copout on his part, and you shouldn't buy it.
All of these things can make your partner uncomfortable, but that's his challenge. Ultimately the goal is for you to be ALL of yourself, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still for the marriage to be good and strong. Refer to Mrs. NOP's excellent credo for relationships.
