Thank you guys. I feel up for my part...I am hoping H will feel the same, and that awkward teenager thing that GEL so aptly describes doesn't take the forefront with my H.
Interestingly enough yesterday in our session....my H said something about taking me to the toy store (we'd been talking about buying games that we both like for us to spend time together with, not sex stuff). I couldn't help myself (me and my smart azz nature) and said "which one?" with a gleam in my eye and he said "both"...said this in front of the C as well. So who knows, maybe we'll end up in a Christies Toybox or something together.
It would be nice to have that open, playful piece...H has glimpses of it, but then it's back to the prudishness. I know at times I have overwhelmed him with some of my more bizarre fantasy life,lol. And I often wonder what's really ticking inside him....
H shocked me the other day by suggesting we go to one of the local adult "toy" stores together Not like him at all. Hasn't mentioned it since but may have to bring that up again. I'm all for toys
What a nice thing for your H to do. That was way outside his comfort zone and a crystal clear sign that he was sending you that he values your sexual relationship, he values your sexuality and he wants to meet YOUR needs, sexual and emotional.
What a sweet gesture. My H who likes lingerie would never think to go buy it. And if he did it would never be the right size! I hope you thanked him with one of those Kisses everyone is talking about
Gotta tell ya - I'm just a teeny bit jealous about the lingerie thing. My H doesn't get into it either and I would just LOVE it if he picked something like that out for me.
Well ladies, the lingerie is best described as " cute"...something a teenager could wear ( first clue to H's sexuality)...a pink tank top with shorts that have dogs on them ( hoping he is not into dogs...or maybe he thinks I'm a dog...help)! Anyway, it does fit, and I called him to tell him that, and then he called back to say, " tell me more about the outfit"...I do believe he was actually flirting with me... now I'm looking for a teasing/flirting manual somewhere...does anyone remember what this is? lol.
IHJ That's the PINK line from VC. Yes, some of it has dogs on it I love that line! Very comfy but cute. Some pieces are sexier than others though, lol. At least its not flannel pj's.
Not like him at all. Hasn't mentioned it since but may have to bring that up again. I'm all for toys 
I love that line! Very comfy but cute. Some pieces are sexier than others though, lol. At least its not flannel pj's. 