HP... Thank you for taking the time to reframe my H's actions in a positive way. Those old resentments of H allowing the relationship to wither away have resurfaced, which isn't going to help me along. I have to remember that there was a reason I married a laid-back kind of guy ( can't have anything to do with my intense, emotional nature, now can it?). Anyway...I am working on having a sexy and fun attitude for Sat.