I think it is great with all you have on your plate right now you are seeing the importance of things that most of us just put off as something that can be tended to once all this is over.
he still has the mood fusion with me; whatever my mood is, he reacts
This is got to be one of the hardest things for you. My H is simular. And gosh knows it would be nice sometimes if I was down and my H tried to bring me up instead of just being down also. It is hard to always be the one who has to not only turn there own mood around but someone elses. I feel for you on that one.
Saturday is still pretty far off why did you pick that day? Maybe to make it more fun you could just be off the cuff and do it tonight or tomorrow out of the blue. Though I do the scheduled min amount of sex a month I don't think I could set days and times. That would feel more of a obligation then a act of love. But that is just me.
