Well I did it...I brought up the sex issue. Told him that after all the work we have done, I don't want to stay set back. It does bother me that I have to be the one to get things started again, but it's just the way it is. We still have so much work to do...really he has work to do...he still has the mood fusion with me; whatever my mood is, he reacts. I can't do that work for him, just as I have to learn to be strong in the face of my father's deterioration. Our whole family is so reactive with poor boundaries....gotta keep working on this.
Anyway, we decided to try to ML on Sat nite even though we both are in low libido states. Should be fun.
