Just_Me, Thank you for your input. I have not been around for a bit because I was trying to figure something’s out.
My ex husband called 2 weeks ago and asked if he could come over. I told him I didn't feel comfortable because he I feel he only comes over for sex. After a brief conversation he said well I guess we should move on then. I haven't spoken to him since.
Saturday, he asked me to leave the stuff I found in the house that's his on the porch so I did that. The bag contained several things such as wedding pictures of his family and his wedding ring. He text messaged me 3 days later and said "so you didn't sell my ring? That was one of the things that pushed me away” I told him I sold our rings after he asked for the engagement ring back. He always tells me if you didn't do this or if you didn't do that. I text him back "I told you after I said that I didn't get rid of them, I couldn't do that." "Truth is your very confused as to why you let it get this far" It's almost like he is trying to justify why he asked for a divorce!!!!
Since then I have been receiving his parents mail again (my XH is a III) his doctor's office called. This stuff hasn't happened in 6 months!!!! I have been respectful of their mail and I have packed it and sent it to them. I let me XH know each time I receive something and when I send it out. I don't even get a thank you!!!!
I feel so alone, depressed and unhappy! I'm not sure if he's mad at me or he's really moving on!! Does anyone have any advice for me????? Should I just not let him know if mail comes and just send it? I guess I should wait and see if he ever contacts me!?!!?
