This sounds like my H to a T as well. We have (or I should say I have) been having this problem for about 3 years. I am just at a loss on what to do. Just like Luvs, my husband and I have a great relationship other than the sex. I have HD and when we first me I thought he did too. But after we got married it went from great to bad to worse. Now we have sex about 1 a week if that. And when we do have sex, it lasts like a min and he is done. He is only 36 and I am 34. It frustrates me beyond belief. I have communicated this problem so many different ways and to no avail. I might as well be talking to the wall because it falls on deaf ears.
Last night we had sex, he initiated (because that is the only time we have it....is when HE wants it). It literally took about 1 minute for his climax and he asked if he could sleep for a little while and wake me up later. I was pissed. I was like, don't bother. I don't know what happend to him. It used to be the best sex of my life. He could go for hours, now I know he climaxes easy because we hardly do it any more, but come on. I blew up. I cant take it anymore. I told him that I don't want to have sex with him anymore, that all it does is make me frustrated beyond belief and I would rather not deal with it anymore. I told him I have been telling him for years that it has been a problem and that he doesn't seem to care enough to fix it.
He then turn like the victim and says that I should get rid of him and because he is a faliure as a husband...blah blah blah...I am so sick of hearing that BS. Along with all the excuses WHY he doesn't feel like having sex. If anyone can help out by telling me what works and what doesn't (obviously blowing up at him doesn't- I know that, just cant help it at times)....that would be great. And I certainly didn't mean to hijack Luvs thread, just feel EXACTLY like her.
