Quote: It's great to know that I have some support system and someone to chat to about this issue since no one I've spoke to (friends, family) can offer me any help because they just don't understand the problem...their men chase them around for sex. Again, thank you.
Your part of the 20% of people in SSM or SSR in your case. That is that of the SSM 1 in 5 women are get less then desired 4 in 5 men are in that situation. So your friends and family are more typical, that doesn't make it any less frustrating for you. I guess I'll be the real jerk here and state the facts. You are 12 years younger than your guy and his Testorone will keep declining as will desire as he gets older and you are building to your peak. I see you are setting your self up for a many years of frustration with this relationship as your guy will have to over come his and natures tendancies. I think your wise to be concerned, I could see where there could also come later other conflicts due to age differences. This is just my thoughts and I'm sure you considered this and have heard it form others around you. Anyway it's good your guy is willing to discuss this and see if improvements can be made. I wish you happiness.
