Thanks for the insight. I have told him how I feel on multiple occasions. He really seems to "get it" after reading the first two chapters of the book. I know that getting married is a bad idea if this isn't worked out. We have talked about that and that is why we're trying to deal with the problem right now. In regards to a MC, no, not yet...maybe as a last resort. In reply to your comment on consequences, I guess the consequence is that the relationship will be over and that's already on the table. It would be a d*mn shame if this one issue ruined an otherwise wonderful relationship.
So, thank you very much for your reply. It's great to know that I have some support system and someone to chat to about this issue since no one I've spoke to (friends, family) can offer me any help because they just don't understand the problem...their men chase them around for sex. Again, thank you.