Following my heart....

[StrongEnough]

Could you make a trip out here to CA and tell that to my H?

Now there's some ME time I could really go for!!! Minus the confontation with H.

I'm glad that you're aware of the financial benefit to him coming, but try not to dwell on it. Let his actions guide you there. It might always be in the back of your mind, as it is mine, but that is something that unfortunately only time will tell. And H sounds very much like my parents. Very materialistic. Ugh....I can't stand that.

but he really wants to reconcile because he knows that he still loves me, and there's no one else he'd rather be with.

That's great that he said that. The question is, do you believe him?

He says he doesn't know why he did what he did, but he is truly remorseful for having done it. H said, "I....I just got lost, Valerie....I don't know how I lost my way, but I did....but now I know exactly where I want to be, and that is with you."

To me, that sounds like a heartfelt apology from someone who cannot understand how/why he messed up so badly. That is a very positive sign. He knows he "got lost" and "doesn't know why he did it" great motivation for MC.

EXCELLENT! Thank you! I was planning a trip to B&N this coming Monday with the kids after school, so I'll put it on my list

I hope that you are able to get something out of this book. I have it. H wasn't thrilled to see it in the house naturally but hey, we all have to do for ourselves what we have to do.

Sorry that H's schedule changed to nights. Look at the bright side....if you are so inclined....this really gives you time to plan a WOWING that H will never forget!

Keep up the excellent work Valerie!

~SE