Valerie. I know if I was your H, I'd be pretty confused. Because I'm not your H and just one of many reading your posts, I'm just concerned. Why would you tell H to buy tires and then say, oh well, I never get anything good for my B-day - I'm used to it. It's almost as you didn't want him to get you something nice and surprise you and when you saw that he was, you stepped in and put a stop to it. Why? And then why be upset? If he gets you the tires, it will only be because that's what you asked for. Then to be upset with him - well that's just crazy behavior that you have to stop. Then he is suppposed to figure all of this out on his own - with you leading him down the wrong path? How can the man ever win this? He cannot read you mind. You have to ask for what you want and then really want what you are asking for. Why do you feel like you had to say what you said? I'm not going to be an arm chair C, but I am concerned about this action just the same. Give it some thought.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
