I hope you have a great time tonight with kids and H. Do you have any back-up plans if he asks to stay the night? Or is that something you are comfortable with? I also hope he doesn't use sex to manipulate you into coming back home. But, atleast you are aware and won't be duped so easily as H may think.
Maybe for your upcoming B-Day he will get you that "thing". You mentioned that he was cautious with money, maybe he thinks that if he got you something extravagent and expensive that it's his way of showing change in something that has been an issue in the past. If he doesn't though, hey....tires aren't cheap either. I wish my H used some caution when it came to money. He can be an impulsive buyer.
I think that little blurb you pulled of my other thread from Sage was some wonderful, honest words of wisdom. IT is soooo true.
So, what's your plan to WOW H tonight?? Something slinky and sexy? Or something slinky and sexy under a sweatsuit "just incase"
Enjoy your night!!!!!!!
~SE
P.S. The BIG 3-1 this week huh?? I turn the BIG 3-2 this year *ouch* it hurts just to type it.
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007