You sound confident and well-grounded. That's a great to be and stay given the upcoming anticpated events.

I agree with you, it has to be right for YOU and not just right for the kids. You hit on something there with me. I did what I did because I felt it was right for the kids, not necessarily for me. If you read any of my threads, you will see that I am paying for it now.

At this point, your H seems to accept that you aren't ready to rush into anything with him. I hope he doesn't try to pressure you or manipulate you into anything else. Keep beeng strong and hold your ground.

GL when he returns tonight. Let me know what happens. (I'm nosey )

~SE

I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007