Quote: I tend to question myself ALOT , and to avoid conflict or hurting others' feelings, I give in to their needs and wants.
Valerie- That is me also. When H wanted to get back together, I initially told him that we would have to date for at least 6 months before I wanted him to move back in with me and the kids. Well, he pushed and pushed and one week later was moving back in. He justified not waiting by saying that it would silly to pay rent and utilities for an apartment he wasn't living in full time and that he would have more money to contribute to the house. Even though I was still against, I gave in and he came back.
Learn from my mistake. When it's time, you will know. Don't rush into it, because if things go wrong, there is conflict or depression the kids will suffer.
(((HUGS)))
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
