He's obviously not going to stop on his own...I think we all know that...I've known it forever...so I really hope he gets the refinery tech position. To me, that seems to be the only thing that will keep him from going to the card room as much as he does. He would be too busy and too tired with working 12+ hour shifts.
I really want what's best for my boys, and I know they want Dad back home, but I just can't see it happening....at least not by the New Year like H wants.
caverna, I hear what you're saying. I haven't been badgering H with what I'd like for him to do. I haven't nagged or complained to him about it at all. I've simply told him....explained it to him....a few times over the last 4 months...and even long before that.
It's not me....it's him.
I've given H the map...complete with directions and all...but for some reason, he doesn't understand it.
Alright, time to get the kids ready for bed. Have a good night, everyone, and thanks for listening.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
I know, Ellie. I know. 
