Ugh... I'm on the same boat. I have asked H to ask ME out. I feel the same way. I'm waiting.
But, you know what? The more you do of something, the less the other person does.
And in "getting through the men you love," Michele says that men hate so much being told what to do, that sometimes they will do the complete opposite even if it's against what they want to do, just to make their point.