Following my heart....

[DonH]

There's nothing I can do anymore. H knows what I want from him, so the ball is completely in his court.

First off, I promise to be nice. In fact I'm going to rip on myself this time. My only question to you is are you 100% certain that he knows? The reason I ask is, in part, following a really long conversation that I had with a mutual friend of WAW and mine today. WAW "thinks" and thought that I knew what she wanted and what she needed. This friend was amazed to hear that I did not. She ask over and over, how could I not know? Well perhaps I'm just the biggest block head on this earth - although something tells me your H still trumps me in this department. Oh sure, it is all clear and in focus now. And I'm telling you I take a great deal of responsbility for not knowing, but WAW did not start with a begninners mind, she did not ask for what she needed and if she did she did not monitor results and try something different. That is not her fault either - she just didn't know. Something just keeps telling me that you need to draw your H a neon sign road map or he is not going to get it. I understand and agree you can't do this forever but at least for now, that may be what he needs. Many of us guys, myself very much included, just simply DO NOT GET IT! We are trainable though.

So please error on the side of caution. Make it so clear to him that a second grader would understand what you want and need. Do not assume ANYTHING!

Hang in there and keep up the great DBing.