My opinion here - if your H wants to regain your trust he has to be an open book right now. He has to be able to share everything with you, otherwise you will always be suspicious and that is not a good way to rebuild your R. Let it go this time but from now on you might have to set up your boundaries with him. He can go along with it or you can stop things now. Remember, it is actions, not words. Good luck, KDU. I'm thinking of you...
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
