OCKim asked some great questions and your answers show lots of thought. Hopefully the AD's can help your H out. Maybe he can come out of his depression and become the man you knew once again. Worth waiting the 6 weeks or more to see if that happens. You don't want any "what if's" hanging over your head. And, BTW, I think life does get better at 40. I'm 41 now and feel better about myself than I have in a long time, maybe ever. And we are in our sexual prime. Too bad I'm not getting any...
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
