Hopefloats - I too am interested in if meds help my H but the doc said it could take 6 weeks.
Get a tree, live a little, anything to boost your outlook, I say go for it and if H can't help you get a friend to help. We have to do what we want to make ourselves happy and try not to overly worry about the WAS.
I didn't get to put mine up last night due to the fact that it was 33 degrees when I left work at 5.15pm last night and I went home got the kids and went to my friends for the kids to have a swim. We then had fish & chips for tea and didn't get home until 9pm, when S9 had to go to bed. So it will now be over the weekend. Tonight I am going to get it all out as the two older kids stay at my mums and S9 is at his dads. If I get it all out they can help tomorrow afternoon. I will do as much as I can around the house without doing the tree and on Saturday I will start putting up the lights etc......
Let me know if you decide to get a tree, I am interested now
