I can so relate to this...when I started Therapy...she told me that one day she was convinced that I would outgrow Dave and look back and wonder what I was doing with him...maybe she should have been a fortune teller...because lately that is what my head is telling me...that we are just going in two different directions and that I have grown so much in the past couple of months. I can totally relate honey...
But it doesn't mean we don't love them, that we haven't given up on the chance to reconcile...but at the same time we really have drifted apart from them. I guess that is why they say you start a whole new R with them.
