Good news about H getting on the ads. Lets hope they help him.
I too have become a stronger woman - alone and I really do not know if H is the type of person I wish to be with any longer so I am standing back and working that out at the moment...
Its scary isn't it. All the energy you put into something that you were certain you wanted and were prepared to move heaven and earth to get. And then you get stronger, and think about it and reassess everything.
Kim I think it is a really positive thing that you are reassessing things. It would be so easy to think, yes we will get back together and everything will be rosy. But the reality is unless you address the issues, they will still be there, and will raise their ugly heads somewhere down the track.
Your Christmas decorations sound great. It is a lot of work ~ but it will be worth it.
