H is waking up....but will it last????

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I am really starting to detach I think so this is very interesting at the moment and I have no idea where it is going to lead me

I think the detaching is a very good thing in your sitch. You sound very strong right now and seem to know what you want. I have found that detaching is good and yet for me I question myself "Am I really in love with my H?" It seems that I was working on myself to please H b/c of all the "bad" that I've done in my M. Now that I've grown and learned a lot about myself and become a stronger woman I don't see H in the same light. I've changed for the better but he hasn't.

Just not as young as I used to be.

LOL!! I know what you mean. I need at least 2 full days to recoop!

Glad to hear that H is going to the doc about his depression and will be getting the treatment he needs.