H is waking up....but will it last????

[kaydeekay]

but I just feel like we are 2 seperate people going our own seperate ways

Kim, I have felt like that also. But from what I've read from your responses from others maybe this is to be expected. I really don't know what I expected. I probably would have doubts if H was shadowing me and showing me all this attention and I would probably be asking myself "Okay, why is he acting this way. Something must be up or he's acting guilty for some reason."

I guess we just need to let our H's work at their on pace. I'm sure this is difficult for them as it is for us. The only thing we have in our favor is our DB skills and this board. I don't know if there is a board for WAS to vent or get ideas on how to reconnect with a LBS .

So I'm going to take some of the advice (if you don't mind) that others have given you and let H work at his own pace. I know I should be very grateful that I'm at this stage with my H, but I just keep remembering the lies and deceit that was inflicted upon me this past year. I'm learning not to hold on to that if I want to move forward with H.

Kim, we've got a long road ahead of us that will have a lot bumps and turns (hopefully no detours ) on our way to reconcilliation land. So hang in there girl!!!