The OW is just trying to find all sorts of excuses to contact your H. She just won't give up, would she?? Don't let her contacting your H get under your skin. That's what she is trying to achieve too... As long as your H is truthful about OW contacting him, and you listening and understanding...(with your occasional input of concern)...think it would be alright! Be cool! Don't let her get to you, REMEMBER!

One Day at a TIME!!!