The OW is just trying to find all sorts of excuses to contact your H. She just won't give up, would she?? Don't let her contacting your H get under your skin. That's what she is trying to achieve too... As long as your H is truthful about OW contacting him, and you listening and understanding...(with your occasional input of concern)...think it would be alright! Be cool! Don't let her get to you, REMEMBER!