Hi Kim, Great to see that you are still hanging in there.
I must say this is no easy road and it ain't hearts and flowers, there are so many issues and I sometimes wonder if I have the strength as I feel like I do all the hard work and he just takes it all forgranted. Oh well my problem guess I will work it out in time.
I guess you have to work out whether the effort is worth it. I think there is a lot of work ahead of you. Somehow, I don't think the reality is like the movies where you make up and live happily ever after.
At the moment it is you doing most of the work. Has H agreed to see a counsellor? Not sure what his outburst was about, but it wasn't about your kids. I think it is just easier for him to lay the blame on them, than confront what it really is that he is upset about.
Hang in there Kim. You do have the strength to do this. The decision really is ~ do you want to? And you don't have to make that decision today, tomorrow, or even next month. And even then, you can change your mind.
But guaranteed no matter which road you take you will be strong and you will be a success.
