H is waking up....but will it last????

[Burgbud]

I must say this is no easy road and it ain't hearts and flowers, there are so many issues...

Hearts and flowers is the easy part. If you guys can work thru your issues and keeping working in spite of your issues (you'll never solve them all), you'll know you've really got the R you want.


...and I sometimes wonder if I have the strength as I feel like I do all the hard work and he just takes it all forgranted.

You are doing a lot of the hard work, but he's taking some steps:

H: "Yes I know but I don't like them either"

H: "yeah maybe you are right, I will give it some thought"

At least he recognizes this intellectually. Now we'll see if he can follow thru. It's hard, Kim; don't expect him to change all at once. Just see if he can keep giving you what you need in that two-steps-forward one-step-back manner we're all so used to.


Oh well my problem guess I will work it out in time.

I'm very sure you will, doll. I have no doubt.