amd - Thanks for dropping by. I have no idea why the OP thinks they have a different set of rules, s'pose it comes from having never been the OP...and never wanting to be... You are right about the mobile but we are making baby steps but don't worry that will be one of the things he will have to do in the near future.....
BB, Yes i would say he has more time for the kids now. Which is good. OW I am sure is not finished yet, remember she swore she would bed him again, b/c she can, I tell you if that happens and i find out about it, she can have H as I will never forgive him again.
Once is a mistake.....maybe....twice that is divorce......
H does seems to be getting along alot better with my S17, I must say which is a lovely change as S17 was very very let down by him when it was revealed there was an OP. They seem to get along better now than they ever have, I think that's b/c S17 has all of a sudden got a lot older in his acions so this may have something to do with it.
I am still keeping my fingers crossed that H and I work it out but at the moment I would still be O.K. if we couldn't work this out. So it is still one day at a time and little baby steps until we work it out or one of us can't do it anymore. I will admit I am always wondering where he is and what is he doing but I don't ask too many questions and go with the flow a little.
So we will see..
He came over last night and we went to gym and then he came back for dinner. We sat together on the couch and watched some T.V. shows until 10.30 and then I said he better get going home as i needed to go to bed...hehe can't be too easy can I. ....KDU
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