SH thankyou so much for your kind words. As for H ending contact with OW yes he has. He does have to work with her and his first day back at work was yesterday and guess what, she wasn't there. Today and tomorrow are meant to be her days off, H is off Thursday so they may see each other for the first time on Friday but she is only there for 4 hours and he says he will avoid the kitchen.
He leaves his mobile around so if I wanted to look I could and he told me I am free to but I said no that I trust him (very tempting though but better he believes I am getting the trust back). I have had no messages from OW since the wedding thing and H hasn't heard from her either so all is very quiet. (Don't know if that is a good thing or not) Could be the calm before the storm.
As for counselling, I don't know it is something we must discuss, I know H doesn't like it but he might be more open to it now, I will work on that one.
Anyhow so far so good and hopefully things are as they seem but I guess I wouldn't truly know as I can't keep tabs on him every minute of the day.
