Hi KDU, Just caught up with your thread. Wow, girl, you handled that whole wedding fiasco like a true DB pro. I would have lost it I think with H's whole not wanting to break a promise to OW BS! But look how well you handled it, and now she came out looking like a nut. Good good job! I am so impressed with how well you are exhibiting self-control and how you are handling things with H. GOOD JOB KIM!!!! I think it is true that you guys will have to enter counseling at some point...is H receptive to that? I know it seems he is not making the efforts you would like, but in truth these efforts he's making appear genuine, so be glad for it. And you are doing great with maintaining your dignity as you want to do. So when is H planning on ending contact with OW? I realize he sees her at work, but the contact really needs to end at some point. Has he mentioned this? KDU, as this process unfolds, I think you will have ups and downs, and continue to have expectations, which you should, but it can be a challenge to balance these expectations with having patience in this process. You are doing a darn good job, so be proud and keep up the good work!!
