BB thanks lovey but don't you ever think you have nothing to offer me just b/c you haven't got to where I am now. If there is one thing I have learnt the people on these boards know a whole lot more about life than they did when they first came here and b/c of what they have already been through they see things differently now so I value whatever your thoughts may be.
Even if they are just little warnings, like when you said to hold on to my dignity that is my catchcry now let me tell you. BB you and DMF were the first males on my thread at a time when I needed a male's perspective. I adored your honesty and like they say Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus so often we do not think the same way you really helped to show me that and make me try and look at if from a different point of view.
So I am telling you BB you keep your advice, opinions and ideas coming and stop pussy footing around this by pretending you know nothing about it. You are a smart, compassionate and intelligent guy with a very very warm heart and don't you dare let anyone make you think any different.
So now open up my love and lay it all out there, this board is about honesty, tell me to watch out for this and that, tell me what you think a male might think, i am allowing you permission to give your opinion as everyone is allowed one. The self growth I have done through all of this has truly helped me and more so to handle my current sitch b/c I don't truly know if it will work or not but I am willing to find out and I know now I will be O.K. whichever way this goes and if it doesn't work I know I will not crash as bad this time and I will be able to get moving with my life alot quicker - Why b/c I feel like I have had a choice in it this time and not just had it dumped on me and a decision made without my consent. Isn't that truly how a lot of us feel.
BB bring it on baby I have broad shoulders I can take it and that goes for anybody else, if you think something when you are reading my post go for it and tell me, I am allowed to disagree but I like thinking it over first and being sure of what I think and it will help to keep me on my toes, I want my eyes wide open doing this not wide shut..... ...KDU
Oh and BB OW can KMA too, funny how they think they are all of a sudden the victim, forgive me if I cannot show her any sympathy......the individual greedy part of me was very impressed when I told H she was playing games with this wedding thing and he believed she was being genuine, but when she spat it about me going to the same town it just showed him I was right about her wanting more and I did feel a bit smug about that. She sought of played straight into my hands and H was really surprised that I could call it as acurately as I did.....Oh well we have all learnt alot here haven't we......
...KDU