Glad to hear you had a relaxing weekend. It will take time for things to move back to some type of normalcy. And you will keep some barriers up for a while until you are sure that H is REALLY moving in the right direction. Are you going to MC? You may not want to push it yet but I firmly believe after what we go through we need to sort all the issues out with a MC. I tried already without one and I won't even think about trying to reconcile without one. What are you going to do?
Sorry I haven't posted much - been busy this weekend. Will post more on my thread. Still going through my "blue" phase - maybe I'm like Picasso and will do some of my best work now...
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr