KDU - Don't think you've done anything to offend anyone. Think that most of us are somehow caught in our own yoyo-ing that our response may not be good advice. Although I have been reading a lot of the threads, I haven't really been posting on anyone's thread cause I don't think I have anything good to advice, considering that I am in such a yoyo-ing confusion state. Ha ha ha... I am still holding up okay....
Anyway, KDU - I am glad that things are working our pretty well for you...as for the barriers still up. I guess it's our human nature to protect us...you can continue to do that, just do and OSCAR and not let your H see those barriers....
Oh..one question... When did you sitch start? Ie. when did you find out about OW? And did your H move out immediately after that or did he hang around for a few months? I just want to gauge the timing as to when a WAS would sort of wake up?? Just want to compare a little bit with my sitch.. which was 7 months from the bomb, but only 2 months living apart....
