KDU: You handled yourself against OW with dignity. Kudos to you!!! I can't believe how the OW react when OUR H's want to work on the M. They act as though our H's are not married and only answer to them. The OW in your sitch sounds kinda like the OW in my sitch.

I don't know but i would have thought that he would want to spend a fair amount of time with me considering all we have been through and considering we are supposed to be putting our M back together

I have had that same thought too girl. My H has told me where he and OW had been, and what they've done. But, since he has been back home he has not taken me anywhere. Once I saw H and OW out and he was holding her hand and parading her around like she was some prize pig!

But, I think we just need to give them some time to adjust being back with us...patience comes into play again.

Keep it up KDU, you're doing an outstanding job so far!!! Woo-hoo!


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years